just be yourself because its a matter of choice.
before its hard for me to admit that sometimes i do things i dont want to, just for the sake of belongingness w/c acts as my shield in my social life.but i realize that there will come a time that i have to stand up for my own good because when the going gets tough those so called friends will be no longer on my sides...

i used to watch sesame street when i was growing up and i always love that segment when they sing this:

which of these things is not like the other...
which of these things doesn't belong...
can you guess which thing is not like the other..
and i'll tell you if it is so..

i guess you can always sing that when you are confronted with that situation.